Years ago, I found myself talking to a stranger on the street. He had clearly had a few drinks and was more than happy to chat with someone.
During that conversation, he said a phrase that stayed with me for years, quietly waiting for the right moment to resurface:
“Selective morality.”
We were talking about veganism.
“I know it’s not ideal,” he said. “I know there are better ways to live. But I don’t want the hassle. So I choose to believe whatever allows me to keep living the way I already do.”
That thought never left me.
Then there’s another conversation I’ve had many times:
“You know, I used to be vegan too.”
Whenever I hear that, I’m always curious about the same thing:
“What made you go back?”
The answer is often some variation of:
“Iron.”
“Protein.”
“Vitamins.”
And then, just a few days ago, at the beginning of summer, I learned from an acquaintance that it’s the perfect season to make nettle soup because nettles are rich in iron.
No search engine.
No AI.
No hours of research.
Just a conversation.
Moments like that remind me how much of our worldview is shaped by the information we happen to encounter, the people we listen to, and the stories we choose to trust.
Perhaps we all believe what makes the most sense to us at a particular moment in our lives.
Whether that’s good or bad, I’m not sure.
And maybe there isn’t a universal answer to that question.